I am having this insight, as we speak. Although, throughout the day, blog topics come to me, and I log them into my phone. If I don’t, then there is no way for to remember it,  No matter how good it was. Unless that idea is triggered again by something i’m doing or thinking, that links me back.                 Within the past week, I’ve logged over 50  topics to share alternative perspectives on.

The subject here “could be taken in the wrong way, if the reader is too deep in the world of judgement, or cannot allow oneself to take on a deeper view of this polarized subject. I also realize that I do not have time to acknowledge one missing view of this post.

So why is it, that Some people seem to like Verbally judging & pointing out wrongdoing of Others?  The Fact is, that, If you want the beliefs of the Judge’s  to grow, You Have to point out Others downfalls!  This is not a choice, its a law of nature!  It’s a tough pill to swallow but Let me explain –

Notice that I said, ” If you want the beliefs of the People “Judging”, to Grow!!  Remember that all situations have multiple perspectives.  Perspective 1) By verbally judging wrongdoing, they are in turn, “Ingraining” Their beliefs Deeper, by bringing awareness to the fact that they are “Here” & others are “There”.  If you were always around people just like you, then you would have no way to measure yourself on a growth scale.  So the only way that we are able to even calculate any kind of Personal Identity of ourselves, is by Looking Elsewhere, and subconsciously Comparing Us to Them! It’s impossible for Us to Know Who we are, Without a constant continuous comparison of others.

Perspective 2) In this scenario, the ones being judged, are by default, going to experience the Polar opposite of growth.  Since they are the receivers, if they are not emotionally strong, they will experience “Negative growth”.

Can you see where most people go wrong?  By Verbally judging people, It is true that the person will be confirming and “Ingraining” their perceived goodness, But the Cost is the Equalled destruction of the other person. Verbally judging someone ends up with no Net benefits.

On the contrary, If someone is living in growth mode everyday, They are unconsciously & continually bringing  their awareness to “Where” they Are, in relation to others, and are Either Praising themselves (silently) for doing Better than “other”, Or Condemning themselves (silently), for Not doing as good as “other”.

So the next time you hear someone pointing out another persons downfalls, You should have a slightly renewed perspective on the “unconscious ” motivations behind behind the giver!

All of us live in an unconscious state, of constant comparisons of the outside world to Us, So all we can do is try to maximize each others growth, and Know that, at our deepest levels, None of us are Any better than Anyone Else!  Realize that it’s just a Fantasy Game, in this Play called Life!!!

Thank You,  John G. Hilderbrandt